Hubby and I went Jusco thought of having our late lunch at about 4pm. Nothing special on a Sunday evening, don't know why there are so many cars searching for parking and the parking lots are so full. Hubby had go round and round looking for parking lot, but no luck with him. So I exchange seat with him, handling the car (I've more luck on parking!).
Less than 1 minute after I take over, I saw a car owner going up their car, preparing to leave the parking lot. Wow! I quickly on my signal light and look up to check whether any other cars is aiming the same parking lot as I am. No! No car has on any signal for this parking. And so I change into reverse gear, reverse my car into the parking lot.
I notice a Malay women standing at the parking lot only after I half-reversed my car into the parking lot, she slaped my car to ask us stop. I got down. She said "Ini saya punya husband's parking, dia sedang mari." I replied her "Saya punya kereta sudah sampai, u punya kereta dekat mana? Tak boleh reserve parking macam ni!" She answer "Saya sudah lama tunggu parking ini". Hubby can't stand him also, he got down and tell her she cannot reserve parking like that. Not long after our conversation, the Malay women's husband's Kancil arrived. He, the Malay man start scolding us, and threaten that he'll mark down our car number. But I'm not so tame to be scolded when I've done nothing wrong. I told him "You tau mark saya punya number, saya pun tau mark down you punya number!" And I go back into my car, continue reverse into the parking lot.
Hubby saw this rude Malay man scolding like hell, he started to change his mind, he ask me to let go, give them the parking, don't argue with them. But I'm such a stubborn person, I insist parking in my car.
Thus, our lunch time turn sour. I'm furious on hubby's act to let go the parking lot when the Malay guy scold us; hubby mad at me when I act so stubborn, insist on parking at this lot.
What do you think?
Less than 1 minute after I take over, I saw a car owner going up their car, preparing to leave the parking lot. Wow! I quickly on my signal light and look up to check whether any other cars is aiming the same parking lot as I am. No! No car has on any signal for this parking. And so I change into reverse gear, reverse my car into the parking lot.
I notice a Malay women standing at the parking lot only after I half-reversed my car into the parking lot, she slaped my car to ask us stop. I got down. She said "Ini saya punya husband's parking, dia sedang mari." I replied her "Saya punya kereta sudah sampai, u punya kereta dekat mana? Tak boleh reserve parking macam ni!" She answer "Saya sudah lama tunggu parking ini". Hubby can't stand him also, he got down and tell her she cannot reserve parking like that. Not long after our conversation, the Malay women's husband's Kancil arrived. He, the Malay man start scolding us, and threaten that he'll mark down our car number. But I'm not so tame to be scolded when I've done nothing wrong. I told him "You tau mark saya punya number, saya pun tau mark down you punya number!" And I go back into my car, continue reverse into the parking lot.
Hubby saw this rude Malay man scolding like hell, he started to change his mind, he ask me to let go, give them the parking, don't argue with them. But I'm such a stubborn person, I insist parking in my car.
Thus, our lunch time turn sour. I'm furious on hubby's act to let go the parking lot when the Malay guy scold us; hubby mad at me when I act so stubborn, insist on parking at this lot.
What do you think?
7 comments:
Some of people are bit uncivilised....just forgive and forget them la. I got kena a few times but I just let go....dun want to spoil my mood becos of these people.
Ya..understand this kind of feeling. I will choose not to spoit the mood furthure and give that parking lot to that stupid uncivilized ppl. Got 1 time I was at the post office and was also looking for parking. Then found one and turn on my signal. This stupid lady standing in that parking lot showing me sign language that her car is coming and this parking belongs to her. Aiyo...like that also can. So i left and was happy because later I found another parking which was better than hers (got shade somemore). Remember, god is fair!
it is difficult to judge whether you or your hubby is right or wrong...
each person have different opinion...
if i'm facing the problem as you,
i will just let go and walk away,
sour lunch for sure not be my choice,
but i don't think i will face this kind of problem because i'm not driving a car...
Seems that everybody agree with hubby - let go. Ok, Ok, I'l try to let go next time....
I will parked also without bordering these ppl.. so uncivilised... then I will also take photo of my car (just in case after I go in shopping, they scratch my car) and also take their pictures! I DID THAT ONCE! :p
I not worry ppl treat me bad, I am more scare that ppl treat me well... so be nice to me.. muahaha..
If i m at ur situation, i think i will act as ur husband. Will choose to let go, but my husband sure insist and fight back the couple..hahha.
Anyway, i definetely understand your feeling and dealing with those uncivilized ppl.
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