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Showing posts with label Special Days. Show all posts
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Wednesday, August 11, 2010

First day of Puasa

To me, Puasa (fasting) is the month leading to Hari Raya Puasa. We could buy delicious Malay food in the evening!

Just in case you are not aware of the meaning of fasting before Hari Raya Puasa, what is Ramadan? I've found some detailed explanation for you:
Ramadan is the ninth month of the Islamic calendar. It is the Islamic month of fasting, in which participating Muslims refrain from eating, drinking and sexual activities from dawn until sunset. Fasting is intended to teach Muslims about patience, humility and spirituality and is a time for Muslims to fast for the sake of God and to offer more prayer than usual. During Ramadan, Muslims ask forgiveness for past sins, pray for guidance and help in refraining from everyday evils, and try to purify themselves through self-restraint and good deeds. As compared to the solar calendar, the dates of Ramadan vary, moving backwards about ten days each year depending on the moon. Muslims believe Ramadan to be the month in which the first verses of the Qur'an were revealed to the Islamic Prophet Muhammad.

The most prominent event of this month is fasting. Every day during the month of Ramadan, Muslims around the world get up before dawn to eat Sahur or Sehri or Sahari (meaning "something we eat at Sahar"), then they perform the fajr (or Sobh) prayer. They have to stop eating and drinking before the call for prayer starts until the fourth prayer of the day, Maghrib. Muslims break their fast at Maghrib (at sunset) prayer time with a meal called Iftar. Muslims may continue to eat and drink after the sun has set until the next morning's fajr prayer call. Then the process starts again.

Ramadan is a time of reflecting , believing and worshiping God. Muslims are expected to put more effort into following the teachings of Islam and to avoid obscene and irreligious sights and sounds. Sexual activities during fasting hours are also forbidden. Purity of both thoughts and actions is important. The fast is intended to be an exacting act of deep personal worship in which Muslims seek a raised awareness of closeness to God.

The act of fasting is said to redirect the heart away from worldly activities, its purpose being to cleanse the inner soul and free it from harm. It also allows Muslims to practice self-discipline, self-control, sacrifice, and empathy for those who are less fortunate; thus encouraging actions of generosity and charity (Zakat).

Muslims should start observing the fasting ritual upon reaching the age of puberty, so long as they are healthy, sane and have no disabilities or illnesses. The elderly, the chronically ill, and the mentally ill are exempt from fasting, although the first two groups must endeavor to feed the poor in place of their missed fasting. People who are travelling long distances do not have to fast. Also exempt are pregnant women, women during the period of their menstruation, and women nursing their newborns. A difference of opinion exists among Islamic scholars as to whether this last group must make up the days they miss at a later date, or feed poor people as a recompense for days missed. While fasting is not considered compulsory in childhood, many children endeavour to complete as many fasts as possible as practice for later life. Lastly, those traveling (musaafir) are exempt, but must make up the days they miss. More specifically, Twelver Shī‘ah define those who travel more than 40 mi (64 km) in a day as exempt.

The elderly or those who suffer from a disability or disease and have no prospect of getting better in the future can pay the cost of Iftar for a person who cannot afford it, or else they can host such a person in their house and have him eat with them after sunset as a way of repaying for the days they could not fast.

A person who is observing Ramadan might break the fast accidentally, due to having forgotten it. In such an instance, one might spit out the food being eaten or cease the forbidden activity, immediately upon remembering the fast. This can usually happen in the early days of Ramadan because that person might have not yet been acclimated into fasting from dawn till dusk.

When Ramadan came to overshadow Ashura in importance, it took on some characteristics of the latter. According to a well-known hadith, the person who observes Ramadan properly will have all their past sins forgiven. According to another, "When Ramadan arrives, Heaven's gates are opened, Hell's gates are closed, Satan is chained up and jinns are also locked up" and thrown into the oceans.

There are exceptions in certain Muslim communities that deny practising fasting in Ramadan such as Alevi people in Turkey.

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Chinese New Year

Chinese New Year for the year 2010 is coming to an end soon! All of us had been having our sweet time enjoying the holidays. Our shop had reopened yesterday, as such my blog will also reopen! lol

As usual, on the first day of CNY @ my chinese birthday, we will go out early in the morning for breakfast, and go back home waiting for our relatives to come.

God of prosperity on the street - asking for donation!
Mean while, we'll start our once-a-year gambling! I lost RM10 with 20cents each game! No luck for this year, I'll remind myself not to go for casino for this whole year!

Gambling!!!
When my mum was here with us, we will celebrate my birthday on this day. I will have a big big cake with my name on top, and my mum will cook curry chicken, fried chicken/nugget/hotdog, fried mee/mee hun. Since she passed on, this event had been skipped. :(. How I hope she is here with me!

Kids playing video games while adults chit chatting.

Thursday, February 11, 2010

Counting down ... 2 days to CNY

Two more days left! Chinese New Year is coming!

Friday, February 5, 2010

A birthday lunch

On my birthday, I went for lunch with my friends - yes, indeed - both also BOY! lol! Both of them are my best friends. Hubby was working so he didn't come along.

Thanks for the cake and lunch, buddies!!! However, if you all buy me a dvd home cinema, I'll happier!!! lol

Three of us!
A surprise birthday cake from my friends.
Took out "Happy Birthday" and all candles.
Finished the cake!

Saturday, January 30, 2010

26th birthday

My birthday is just a few days away, since it falls on weekday, hubby and I will go Kl on the coming Sunday and Monday. Yup, another KL trip again! lol! It's a simple way to celebrate!

We don't used to hold any grand celebration for birthdays or anniversary, a simple dinner or outing will do, as long as we remember the day and appreciate it.

Happy birthday to me!

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Grandpa's 86th birthday

Grandpa's 86th birthday fell on last Saturday, we held a small but warm birthday dinner gathering to celebrate his birthday. Three generations of grandpa & grandma were gathered together on that special day (三代同堂)! How lovely!

Happy birthday, grandpa!

Saturday, October 24, 2009

Nine Emperor Gods Festival

The Nine Emperor Gods Festival (九皇爺) is a nine-day celebration observed primarily in Southeast Asian countries like Singapore, Malaysia, and Thailand.

In Ipoh, Tow Boh Keong is one of the temple celebrating this festival and it is located opposite of our shop. When it comes to this time of the year, the street in front of our shop will be jammed with cars and peoples.

Hubby always tell me that when he was young and still staying upstairs, he used to look at the crowd every night and he loves the noise. Now the whole family had moved into a terrace house, we still visit the temple almost every night enjoying the crowd!

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Happy April Fools' Day

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April Fools' Day or All Fools' Day, although not a holiday in its own right, is a notable day celebrated in many countries on April 1. The day is marked by the commission of hoaxes and other practical jokes of varying sophistication on friends, family members, enemies, and neighbors, or sending them on fool's errand, the aim of which is to embarrass the gullible.

The origin of April Fools' Day is obscure. One likely theory is that the modern holiday was first celebrated soon after the adoption of the Gregorian Calendar; the term referred to someone still adhering to the Julian Calendar which it replaced.

In many pre-Christian cultures May Day (May 1) was celebrated as the first day of summer, and signaled the start of the spring planting season. An April Fool was someone who did this prematurely.

Another origin is that April 1 was counted the first day of the year in France. When King Charles IX changed that to January 1, some people stayed with April 1. Those who did were called "April Fools" and were taunted by their neighbors.

In the eighteenth century the festival was often posited as going back to the times of Noah. An English newspaper article published on April 13th, 1789 said that the day had its origins when he sent the raven off too early, before the waters had receded. He did this on the first day of the Hebrew month that corresponds with April.

A possible reference to April Fools' Day can be seen in the Canterbury Tales (ca 1400) in the Nun's Priest's tale, a tale of two fools: Chanticleer and the fox, which took place on March 32nd.

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Happy Valentine's Day

Happy Valentine's day!!!

Hubby and I are going to be in Genting Highland by tonight! We are going to spend our night there!

Where do you celebrate this special day?


Saturday, February 7, 2009

The story of Thaipusam

Thaipusam is a Hindu festival celebrated mostly by the Tamil community on the full moon in the Tamil month of Thai (Jan/Feb). It is also referred to as Thaipooyam or Thaippooyam in the Malayalam language. Pusam refers to a star that is at its highest point during the festival.



The story

A long, long time ago, the world was torn apart by an infernal war between the Devas (celestial beings) and the Asuras (evil forces). Tired of constant attacks from the Asuras, the Devas paid homage to Lord Shiva and asked for his protection. Moved by their plight, Lord Shiva agreed to help the hapless Devas.

Lord Shiva opened the central eye on his forehead, radiating 6 sparks of fire. At the convergence of these sparks and through a series of celestial transformation, Lord Murugan appeared. He brought forward this powerful divine personality with elements of Himself and yet distinct from Him, powerful and brave enough to defeat the tyrannous Soorapadme - the meanest and most powerful of the Asuras. Armed with a Nyanya Vel (golden spear) presented to him by Lord Shiva, Lord Murugan went into battle with the evil force. A fierce battle ensued. Finally with one fatal stroke, Lord Murugan slayed Soorapadme. The divine converted one portion of the slain enemy into a peacock as his vehicle and the other portion into a cock adorning his banner.

Lord Murugan, the son of Lord Shiva is considered the very manifestation of valour, beauty, youthfulness, vitality, masculinity, valor and the abode of happiness.

Thaipusam celebrates the very essence of Lord Murugan and the power of good over evil.

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

My birthday cake

My father in-law, mother in-law, hubby and I have our dinner at the East Ocean Restaurant as the celebration of my birthday! It was quite full inside the restaurant but the dished served very fast!

Chocolate cheese cake, Chocolate strawberry cake & Cheese brownies
(My birthday cakes!)

The above are my birthday cakes, I request hubby to bring me to the Secret Recipe weeks before. So on my birthday, hubby and I went to Secret Recipe, ordered 3 pieces of cakes and finished them!

Monday, February 2, 2009

Happy Birthday to me

Yeah! Today is my birthday! Happy Birthday to me!

Let me make a wish.... I wish I could live happily ever after!

Sunday, January 25, 2009

Friday, January 23, 2009

Chinese New Year Mythology

Everybody knows that Chinese New Year is the most important day for Chinese. But I bet other than the Chinese, other people may not know the mythology of Chinese New Year.

According to tales and legends, the beginning of Chinese New Year started with the fight against a mythical beast called the Nian or "Year" in Chinese. Nian would come on the first day of New Year to devour livestock, crops, and even villagers, especially children.

To protect themselves, the villagers would put food in front of their doors at the beginning of every year. It was believed that after the Nian ate the food they prepared, it wouldn’t attack any more people.

One time, people saw that the Nian was scared away by a little child wearing red. The villagers then understood that the Nian was afraid of the color red. Hence, every time when the New Year was about to come, the villagers would hang red lanterns and red spring scrolls on windows and doors. People also used firecrackers to frighten away the Nian.

From then on, the Nian never came to the village again. The Nian was eventually captured by Hongjunlaozu, an ancient Taoist monk. The Nian became Hongjunlaozu's mount.

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Auspicious colors to wear

This is the chart I grab from a friends blog, have a look!

Friday, January 16, 2009

CNY greeting cards

Chinese New Year is coming real soon, have you all bought greeting cards? I have bought some for my friends. They are really nice and beautifully designed! I can't help buying more to send out for my friends.

Traditional greeting cards in various designs

Gold color symbolizes wealth

Colorful lovely greeting cards for young ones

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas!!!

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas! Two days countdown to Christmas Day. Our family are going to Genting Highland on the day to celebrate this very special Christmas. Though no white Christmas, we could still enjoy a cold Christmas!

Hubby & I

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Mid-autumn festival

Where have all of you went during the mid-autumn festival? Hubby and I stay at home with the family. At about 8pm, hubby started going out with some lanterns, lighten them up and hang them at the gate. The children haven't ready to play, so hubby played by himself! I sat at the swing watching him.

Too boring playing alone....
He started to make the paper lantern on fire!

Hubby stopped playing after 15 minutes, the kids continue with it after that. We walk around the neighborhood, found out that there are only 2 house which kids are playing with candles and lantern. Oh, how come?